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NONBINARY ACE LEBIANS UNITE!!

It doesn't matter what you look like, it doesn't matter how old u r, it just matters that u love urself

Happy Pride Month Everyone!

It was this month that I came out to both my mom and my big brother that I was Pansexual. And the only thing my mom said was, “You’re my child, I do not care, but you had better still make me a grandma”

So I made this! This is me (in the middle with white hair), my boyfriend (who we will just call Sparky), and our friend Minda!

I remember after coming out to my brother I was picked on by some kids in the neighborhood, but my brother hugged me and said…

It’s okay… to love yourself for who you are…

That is SO true. ☝🏻 My family does this all the time, and I hate it. 😞

Don’t ever let anyone get you down (too much or for too long,) and don’t let it define your worth. ❤️‍🔥 YOU ARE ENOUGH.

Don’t listen to the lies.

best thing you could have ever said to me. like my dad always says. the only way to treat a cold is with contempt. I present: the only way to treat Sad Boi hours is with disdain

[ID: screenshot with the words "And yeah we've all got limits and flaws and whatever"]

Someone needs to see this.

We love Aros! Aroaces like me or you AroAllos are super valid too! Love all my Aro bros

Asexual and aroace are trending!! However, we can't leave out Aromantic!!

C'mon, let's get it trending!!!

✨ ~ being aro/ace is valid ~ ✨

Crutchie says aro and ace rights🐸💚💜

Yes, also those who are still figuring themselves out :) <3

✨ ~Your gender is valid~ ✨

My...my mom just accused trans people and scientists of starting the Corona virus.

its honestly so sad to have to see kids going through this here in the great fantastic USA rn. I know how other kids can get and as an American citizen who has family(not trump supporting) who work for the government that might lose their jobs, im directly impacted by this. Stay safe everyone- and remember, you are valid

A reminder to the children of America.

You are a child. It is not your job to fix this. You can’t help this. You have to stay safe, even if that means lying about your political beliefs. Put yourself first now so you can put other first in the future.

since apparently it’s Valentine’s Day, system appreciation post!

You’re valid if you’re endogenic

2. You’re valid if you’re traumagenic.

3. You’re valid if you’re mixed origins. 4. You’re valid if you don’t know or care about your system origins. 5. You’re valid if you are a median. 6. You’re valid if you are polyfragmented. 7. You’re valid if you’re mostly blurry. 8. You’re valid if your parts are clear and distinct. 9. You’re valid if you don’t experience co-consciousness. 10. You’re valid if you experience co-consciousness. 11. You’re valid if you experience co-fronting. 12. You’re valid if you don’t experience co-fronting. 13. You’re valid if you hate being a system. 14. You’re valid if you love being a system. 15. You’re valid if you don’t know how to feel about being a system. 16. You’re valid if your trauma doesn’t fit the ‘typical norm’ or expected experience. 17. You’re valid if you have factives/fictives/fucktives/songtives, etc 18. You’re valid if you have hundreds of thousands of headmates. 19. You’re valid if you only have a few headmates. 20. You’re valid if you are looking for final fusion. 21. You’re valid if you are looking for functional multiplicity. 22. You’re valid if you’re a tulpa. 23. You’re valid if you’re an introject who doesn’t want to be like their source. 24. You’re valid if you’re an Introject who does want to be like their source. 25. You’re valid if your system isn’t very active. 26. You’re valid if your system is extremely active. 27. You’re valid if you have a core. 28. You’re valid if you don’t have a core. 29. You’re valid if you have a host. 30. You’re valid if you’re hostless. 31. You’re valid if you have a headspace. 32. You’re valid if you don’t have a headspace. 33. You’re valid if you have a relationship with another headmate. 34. You’re valid if you’re a bodily minor OR adult system. 35. You’re valid if you don’t like some/all of your headmates. 36. You’re valid if you love all your headmates. 37. You’re valid if you’re a disordered system. 38. You’re valid if you’re a non-disordered system. 39. You’re valid if you’re introject heavy. 40. You’re valid if you’re brain-made heavy. 41. You’re valid if you’re non-human heavy. 42. You’re valid if you’re covert. 43. You’re valid if you’re overt. 45. You’re valid if you’re an age regressor. 46. You’re valid if you’re a pet regressor. 47. You’re valid if you don’t identify with the body. 48. You’re valid if you do identify with the body. 49. You’re valid for feeling angry about those who hurt you. 50. You’re valid if you have a lot of control over your system. 51. You’re valid if you experience little to no control over your system. 52. You’re valid if your system structure is complex. 54. You’re valid if your system structure is simple. 55. You’re valid if you’re mono conscious. 56. You’re valid if you’re biconscious or triconscious. 57. You’re valid no matter your conscious term. 58. You’re valid if you want labels about your experiences. 59. You’re valid if you don’t want labels for your experiences. 60. You’re valid for having source trauma. 61. You’re valid for not having source trauma. 62. You’re valid for having alters split due to other alters either negatively or positively. 63. You are valid if you split for no reason, or a reason you can’t identify. 64. You’re valid for being different from the norm. 65. It’s okay to be wrong about your identity. Even if you aren’t plural, it’s what fit you at the time. Identity shifts. We’re always learning about ourselves. You made a mistake is all, you’re not a monster for making a mistake.

I could go on and on for days, but I think you get the jist.

YOU ARE VALID. NO MATTER YOUR EXPERIENCE. YOUR EXPERIENCES ARE REAL. YOU DONT NEED TO FIT INTO THE CONFINED BOX OF REQUIREMENTS TO BE CONSIDERED PLURAL.

Happy Valentines Days, everyone. <3

Important Things My Friends Have Said To Me:

- "No, it's not okay. I can tell you're upset. I'm here if you want to talk."

- "I can't help you if you don't want to help yourself."

- "Trust me. I'm not going to hurt you. I promise."

- "You are too amazing for us to forget. We'd be stupid if we forgot you."

- "Don't worry. I'll protect you."

- "I wilL PUNCH YOU WITH FRIENDSHIP IF YOU DON'T STOP TALKING BAD ABOUT YOURSELF."

- "Don't worry! I'm smiling, and you should too. :D"

- "You should've told me. I'm here for you. I'm always here for you."

- "They love you, I love you. Please, accept our love."

I have such wholesome and great friends. What did I do to deserve them?

I know I already made a “happy pride month” post but this one is for the trans and genderqueer people out there <3

I HOPE YOU STAY SAFE AND PROTECTED FROM TRANSPHOBIC ASSHOLES AND ACTUALLY ENJOY GAY MONTH!! 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️ BE WHO YOU AREEE FOR YOUR PRIDEEEE 😘🥳

hello I'm

genderfluid trash🗑️

And I decided to climb out of my garbage can that I call a home for a second to remind you that

Asexuals and aromantics are LGBTQ+ the A doesn't stand for ally.

Trans women are women.

Trans men are men.

LGBTQ+ BLACK LIVES MATTER!!

Queer is not a slur.

Non-binary people don't owe you androgyny.

Pedophiles and zoophiles are NOT and will NEVER be LGBTQ. They need professional help.

You don't have to come out if you don't feel ready or if you just don't want to.

My DMs are open :)

DNI if: TERF, radfem, homophobe, truscum, transphobe, asshole, bigot, racist, aphobe, arophobe, zoophile or pedophile/MAP.

Day 4: Demiromantic

So here's the demiromantic edit!🖤💚

A lot of people know about demisexuals but what about demiromantics?

Next up is polysexual!

Day 3: Intersex

Here it is! The intersex pride edit! This one was probably the hardest to make out of all the other edits.

Next up is demiromantic!

Wether you are:

lesbian

gay

bi

pan

trans

nonbinary

poly

ace

queer

straight

cis

You are valid.

Just wanted to spread a little positivity today :)

if we taught people that gender is an abstract concept, you'd probably see less hatred for xenogenders. 'How is your gender a dog that makes no sense' the same way your gender is man, or boy. Maybe I've just intellectually ascended or something, but the idea of someone being a pupgender neogirl just doesn't confuse me.

Stop treating concepts like 'man' and 'woman' as more solid than 'mushroom' or 'cleaver' in terms of gender, because gender in itself is abstract. It makes so much less sense to enforce the 'invalidity' of xenogenders because all these rules are made up.

Forever and ever they will ❤️🏳️‍⚧️

This blog is a safe space for bi people. You are loved and you are valid, whoever you are dating does not change your bisexuality♥♥

also reminder if you ‘don’t care’ about bi ppl in straight presenting relationships this pride bc ‘it’s not gay/lesbian enough’ youre literally biphobic and you need to see ur mouth shut . ‘but i’m gay/lesbian and that’s why i prefer to hear’ don’t care . bi ppl aren’t single sex attracted . it is likely we will have straight presenting relationships and u should shut ur mouth before i break ur jaw. bi ppl ur valid i love u

There is no pain threshold to need a mobility aid.

You do not need to be a certain age for a mobility aid.

Hi. My name is Hunter. I'm a fairly young person and I use a cane. I've recently developed bad pain in the muscles around the joint of my right hip. This has caused me to be in pain almost all the time.

I got my cane recently and it has helped me a lot.

I am now in significantly less pain than when walking without it. Which is great. But sometimes I feel like that I'm to young to need it, that my pain is not enough.

But my cane helps me live my life in less pain. It is helping. Therefore I benifit from it.

If you think a mobility aid will help make life easier, and your financially able to, try to get one. And if it doesn't work, donate to those who do need it.

You are fine using a mobility aid, no matter what anyone says. If it helps, it helps.

There is no pain threshold.

There is no age requirement.

The only thing that matters, is if you can move through life as comfortable as you can.