If You Really Wanna Die Clap Your Hands

I guess I’m a sucker for shows with a big close friend group that I can all ship together

Like the whole “this is my boyfriend/girlfriend, this is their boyfriend/girlfriend who is also my boyfriend/girlfriend, etc.”

I LOVE THIS! Even though I head canon Toph as bisexual as well(sorry if this came out mean lol I just love the idea of them both being bisexuals ❤️)

saw @kataraseye do this with Kataang, so of course, i had to do it with my otp :)

I wanna explain some things:

- The heights are just estimates

- Obviously they wouldn't be dating as kids, but 19 x 22 isn't that weird imo, especially in their universe, so that's that

- Sokka is bi. No, I do not take criticism.

- I live for the dynamic of someone acting big around people and then taking down their walls with their partner, hence Toph being the little spoon

- For the pet names, I don't think Toph calls Sokka romantic pet names, but she calls him "Snozzles" or "Meathead" more than she calls him Sokka. I do, however, think that Sokka calls Toph "Love" or "Beautiful" or sometimes just "T"

- I put Sokka in the middle for affection through words or actions cause he does both

- Obviously Toph wouldn't care about bugs, but Sokka is definitely scared of bees and spiders

- Pretty obvious why Toph doesn't drive or cook

- Ok, so I was torn for Toph with the PDA, cause she wouldn't want to be all lovey-dovey in public; but, I think she would secretly like it when Sokka kisses her or hugs her or holds her hand in public

- With being overprotective, I don't think either of them don't trust the other, I think they are overprotective of each other's physical safety. Like, the wouldn't want the other to go certain places alone cause they know that they both could be targets of an assassination attempt. Sokka is also definitely lowkey jealous of any guy talking to Toph, but he knows Toph would never be unfaithful. I think that Toph gets jealous of other girls at times, but she is able to calm herself down pretty easily

- Toph is horny 24/7 and you can not change my mind

Art credit to @/briancampise on instagram. Full art included below:

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You know there’s always that one lobby in among us that is just so fun and everyone is so cool and you’re sad that you’re never gonna play with them again

I did something.

Here’s the thing about my depression, I don’t wanna die but I don’t wanna live.

I just wanna go into a very long coma.

It’s 4 am and I’m yelling at myself because I promised myself I was gonna do school work and did I do work? NO, NO I FUCKING DIDN’T

So I have something to admit…. I kinda liked Gil and Nancy together at the beginning. ONLY THE BEGINNING because I liked the whole Bonnie and Clyde thing they had going on until Gil became a bitch but I still loved nace more of course

Wow! You literally got all my ships, I’m shocked😳

so i have it decided. all my merlin ships.

mergana

gwencelot

arthur x mithian

if you ship ANY of these, like mah post and I’ll follow :3

So, I have a very important question????

Pancakes or waffles?

My friend group and me got into this whole fight about which is better. I chose pancakes with my one friend and my other two friends chose waffles. SO TO BREAK THE ARGUMENT YOU MUST CHOOSE!

HAPPY PRIDE MONTH MY BEAUTIFUL FELLOW QUEERS ❤️🏳️‍🌈

queer is literally a slur. like you’ve never been called that in a derogatory context like most lgbt people? you think your experiences escaping homophobia make it okay to justify the use of a homophobic slur?

queer is an identity.

it has also been used as a slur. there is no denying that. but using a word as a slur does not make it a slur. because before queer is a slur it is an identity. before it is derogatory it is a label. the use of queer as an identity is infinitely more important than the use of queer as a slur because the people who identify as queer are infinitely more important than the people who use queer as a slur.

say a lot of people decided they hated me. despised me. were disgusted by me to the point where my own name became a slur. would you tell me not to say it? would you tell me i could no longer be helena, and instead must come up with a euphemism for the name that belonged to me decades before it belonged in the mouths of bigots?

because that would make you an enabler.

you would tell me i can’t say my name anymore because some lowlife decided he could use it to insult me?

you would tell a gay man that he can’t be gay anymore because some teens in the early 2000’s started calling everything they didn’t like “gay”, and now he has to say “same sex oriented male identifying individual”?

does that enrage you? because it should. that’s exactly how you sound.

you are telling me i cannot use my label. you are telling me that when my great-uncle shouted until his face was red and he spat tobacco and the word queer at my feet, he was right. he was right to insult me, and i was wrong to say my name.

you are shitting on every single one of our predecessors. you are slandering every person who fought for their rights to exist and and be tolerated and be celebrated in their countries, every person who was lost to the aids epidemic, every person whose country criminalizes love and gender expression, every child whose parents abandoned them for straying from the norm, every person who was born and will die in the closet longing to be themselves. the queer umbrella is a safety net, a security blanket, the comfort of being known without being pressured to tell. it is near and dear and important as fuck to every member of the lgbt+ community and you are a blight upon the earth you walk.

how dare you speak upon my experiences with homophobia. how dare you disguise your own homophobia as activism. and how fucking dare you have the audacity to come to my blog and hide behind an anonymous ask and preach to me about how i’m oppressing myself. go look at the fucking wikipedia page for queer and read about how 1980s lgbt+ activists, especially lgbt+ people of color, fought to call themselves queer in a world that still hates peculiar things. and here you are forty years later spitting queer back at their feet.

i don’t give a fuck if people start using my name as a slur. my name is still helena. i will not change it. i chose it, i like it, and it belongs to me. it does not belong to bigots no matter how badly they want it. your discomfort with my identity is not my fucking problem.

i am helena. i am queer. die mad & go fuck yourself