š³ļøāšāØHi, happy pride everyone Iām late I know but I still thought that Iād do this
30 day pride challenge
Day 1 : my pronouns and pride flags
My pronouns are They/Them and my pride flags are
I have to write this short story About a world set in the future In the year 2119, a hundred years in the future After global warming has set its mark on the earth After the now poisonous sea has risen The melting of glaciers and ice sheets Warming of the ocean surface The sick earth.
Anonymous, 2019
I know I suck at tumblr but my friend and I made this fic so hereās a teaserš
So, yeah.....
I wrote a text some time ago called gender, and I just recently red up on some different attractions and founds
Greygender
Greygender (graygender): a person who identifies as (at least partially) outside the gender binary and has a strong natural ambivalence about their gender identity or gender expression. They feel they have a gender(s), as well as a natural inclination or desire to express it, but itās weak and/or somewhat indeterminate/indefinable, or they donāt feel it most of the time, or theyāre just not that invested in it. Theyāre not entirely without a gender or gender expression, but theyāre not entirely āwithā it either, so to speak. In summary, they know they have a gender(s), but either itās indefinable or they are just not invested in the concept of gender. Ā
And I need help
I donāt really care for what pronouns to use and if I call my self he, she, they, ey, fae, ve, xe, ze, zie I donāt feel any different.
If I call myself a boy or a girl or demi of a kind, I feel nothing no joy.
Ā Help, i donāt understand
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pls comment and help me:(
I have no idea what I'm doing. Iām in English, last class of the day. My brain is dead. My body tired and hurting. I'm talking without knowing what I'm saying. I canāt seem to pay attention. My friend is right, I am tired I'm . . . . so tired
Anonymous, 2019
so you know how the pansexual/romantic āsayingā isĀ
HeartsĀ
notĀ
parts
well iĀ ācame up withā one for omnisexual/romantic
HeartsĀ
andĀ
Parts
I was supposed to go on a walk but just sat on rock for like an hour
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QuoiromanticismĀ is something that needs to be more known. From what I can tell, itās a lot more common to be quoiromantic than people think.
Quoiromantic has multiple names other than quoiromantic, including WTFromantic, whatromantic, and thereās one that Iāll get into more later.
Quoiromantic is an inability or extreme difficulty telling the difference between romantic and platonic attraction.
How do you pronounce it?
Itās pronounced likeĀ ākwaā - romantic.Ā āquoiā is french forĀ āwhatā, and is pronouncedĀ ākwaā.
I really donāt like the term, what now?
There isnāt really another term for it (unless in a situation otherwise specified), so if the term is uncomfortable for you (just doesnāt feel right, donāt like the questiony implication, etc..) you could probably make a new one or just use arospec (aromantic spectrum) as your identity but the definition of quoiro as an explanation for your orientation.
I have {alexithymia/ASD/other neurodivergence} and I think thats why I canāt tell the difference. Am I still a valid quoiromantic?
Yes. Neurodivergence can affect identity and thatās still valid. It doesnāt matter if you wouldnāt be quoiromantic if you werenāt neurodivergent. You areĀ neurodivergent. Now, thereās a term specifically for ND people that is similar to quoiromantic but with one thing added to the definition: inability or extreme difficulty telling the difference between romantic and platonic attraction due to neurodivergence. This word is Nebularomantic. This is easier for me to pronounce (quoi makes my mouth feel weird) which is part of why I like it so much.
I think I might be quoiromantic but I know Iām only attracted to {guys/girls/nb people/some combination}. How can I know that if I canāt tell the difference?
I know itās weird, but orientations are weird and individual too. Iām quoiromantic and I know Iām gay. For me itās because I can see myself with other guys and masculine nonbinary people, but not with girls or feminine nonbinary people (androgynous nonbinary people are kinda a coin toss). However, this is never person specific. Itās really weird.
So.. do quoiromantics just haveĀ ācrushesā on all their friends?
Well, itās weird. There are various terms recommended for quoiĀ ācrushesā. The most common isĀ āplushā but I find it kinda⦠:/ like it reminds me of kids toys and that seems kinda weird to me. One that was recommended was quoish (pronounced kwash) but it sounds kinda like crush anyway. I also saw quish (pronounced and spelledĀ āsquishā without theĀ āsā) and that one seems pretty good to me. Also, no. Some quoiromantics canāt even tell if they experience romantic attraction or just have really strongĀ āfriend crushesā (aĀ āsquishā). We often get confused on whether or not we have crushes on all our friends. I always use outside variables. Not on how I feel about them, but more onĀ āthere are theseĀ that disqualify someone from me being in a romantic relationship with themā (see āhow can i tell im only attracted to {guys/girls/nb people/some combination}).
I saw something about how quoiromantic isnāt an orientation but just a modifier?
People who say this are the ones who sayĀ āyou can be quoiromantic and arospec but it doesnāt make you arospecā. What they mean isĀ āMust be This Sure to be Arospecā¢ā. And itās really just likeĀ āok thanks! me, who cant tell the difference between romantic and platonic attraction, will just! check if I experience romantic attraction!ā You can be quoiromantic and not consider yourself arospec (just like nonbinary people can consider themselves not trans). Quoiromantic is an arospec identity in the same way as nonbinary is a trans identity. Because of it, you are included unless otherwise specified.
So I made this because why not. Itās the quoiromantic pride flag.
This made me so happy
Omnisexual positivity!!