My Name Is Doug And I Am An Addict. It Is True, I Am Addicted To Everything To Do With This Whole Hotwife

Not bad for a 43 year old...

I think she really just meant to say that he is bringing out the bad girl in her. Their first get together was nervous and a little clumsy, the next is ten days away. He is promising to make it all that she is craving right now.

Whenever I see this one (or similar), I wonder if it is possible for there to be a question I wouldn’t answer…

Yes, loads of them apparently.

Yes, what they said. Couldn’t say it any better myself!

Interesting, my comfort zone seems to be stretching…

My wife and I had an incredibly interesting conversation last night, one that made me feel a little bit relieved actually. Which, in itself, surprised me. Yet another surprise in what has, so far, been a year full of them.

We have just returned from a little getaway, I took her to one of our favourite places for a few days, it is interstate, we had some quality time all to ourselves. As part of the treat she had a sensual massage, with a new masseur. She really liked him, she even said she finds him pretty sexy. She said the massage was heavenly, she did end up naked and he did rub her clit to give her a really nice orgasm. I think that is super sexy, as was her description of some of the stretching, the positions he had her legs in especially. My wife, legs wide open, totally naked with another guy’s hands all over her. It gives me chills. He had a hard-on too, she said she felt it against her hand, through his jeans. She gently rubbed it a little, as he gave her the orgasm. But, she didn’t have sex with him, she didn’t suck him and she didn’t even undo his jeans to take him properly in her hand.

I must admit, I expected it would either be a totally innocent deep tissue massage or an all out thing, where she ended up having sex with him. Given some of her pre-massage texts with him, about sensual options, and with her New Year’s resolution, I guess I really expected it would have been the latter. It almost didn’t make sense that she didn’t actually have sex with him, I wondered if he just didn’t do that with his clients but she said no, she was pretty sure they would have if she’d turned it that way.

Her resolution, to have a slutty year, probably goes down as the first of several surprises for the year, so far, and that is on top of the enormous surprises of the last few months of last year. It took my wife a very long time to dip her toes into the extramarital fun and games, in fact nothing lime it ever happening was something I had come to terms with. So, even though she has now had sex with a few new guys, the whole slutty thing really didn’t feel like it was her and, hence, it was quite a surprise.

I think one day I’ll post something here about how my fantasies evolved, how I went from saying I would have to be there, knowing everything that went on, then the shift to where I am now. I much prefer her being in control, I love the games she plays, messing with my head (and intense hard-ons), telling me snippets, teasing me until I feel like I’m about to burst. Then, when the moment is right, I sometimes get to hear it all (or as has been the case with one of the guys, join in on the fun).

There’s another deeper fantasy that has evolved, one I have shared with her. I am sure it is triggered by the gut flipping, exquisite and intense rush of jealousy I get every time I see or hear about her with one of her guy friends. There’s this thing, almost in the back of my mind, where I feel like I would love her to have a secret affair. Maybe it comes from before she did dip her toe in, it was almost something I hoped for, something I literally dreamed about.

Anyway, now she knows about it and we joked about making a bit of a game sometime. One where she starts something with a guy and deliberately leaves clues or hints, little things maybe, just to see how long it takes me to cotton on. Ha, I told her I could have some real fun with it if she started, imagine if I picked up on it but didn’t say anything, pretending I didn’t know while she pretended nothing was happening, continuing to leave her subtle little hints, thinking I had missed them.

That will probably not happen (now) but I did learn that my naughty little minx had something just like it planned and, on top of that, she had sort of flipped the game backwards on me. She did the opposite, she made me think more was going on than there actually was. I would have sworn on a stack of bibles that she’d had sex with five other guys in the month of January alone. She most certainly, and very deliberately, led me to believe that was the case, playing her own little game with my emotions and sexual arousal!

Her confessions, about tricking me, came after I asked her some more about that latest massage. I try not to push, I know she’ll tell me things in due course but I couldn’t really understand why it didn’t go further, given her resolution and all. Her answer, said with quite a few giggles shouldn’t have actually surprised me, it was very true to what she has said for a long time. She said he really is quite sexy, she really liked him but she would need to see him more, to make a connection, before she could have sex with him. That connection thing has always been key for her, something she said would make picking a guy up in a bar, or meeting gone from a dating site, almost impossible. She had built it with T, over several years. With G, he is a rare one, like me apparently. She had actually met him once before, and liked him (ok, she thought he was very sexy) plus T talks about him a lot. She didn’t need much more. She felt that connection with him really quickly, and she very soon had her hands full (literally) as she had her first ever threesome, with the two of them.

Now, back to the tricks. I thought she had sex with someone else G knows two days into the new year. She did have yet another threesome with G and T that very evening, but I was convinced this new guy had gotten lucky earlier in the day. I was certain she had told me she had sex with him. I asked her about the connection with him, how that happened so quickly. She laughed, a lot, and said she never even came close to having sex with him, she said she teased me a little bit, I jumped to a conclusion and she played along with it. The conversation went something like this, with lots of laughter mixed in.

“But you said he had a really fat cock and you had never felt one that thick before?”

She replied, I must admit she had stitched me up nicely. “Yes babe, I did. G was teasing me about him. He said he saw him checking me out several times and told me that maybe I should try get the poor guy to bed one day. G was the one who told me he has a really fat dick. I have never seen it and it would be true, if his is fatter than G’s, then I certainly haven’t ever felt one that thick.”

I had to concede, it was clearly one to L, I knew she was right. However, I had another question, or statement.

“But, you went skinny dipping with him, you must have seen it?”

“No sweetheart. I said he was in the pool when I got back to G’s house, nobody ever said he was naked. You asked if I went in the pool and I said yes. Well, I kinda did, I actually just sat on the edge with my legs in the water. You asked what I wore in the pool and I said well, I didn’t take a swimsuit with me did I? It’s not my fault you assumed that meant I went in naked is it? I tricked you my poor baby, and you fell for it.”

I made my last attempt to expose her as a lying, naughty girl. “You said he came really quickly.”

“Yeah, that was a tricky part. I think I actually said he wasn’t a stayer and he went home soon after. He did, he got out of the pool and left soon after.”

I told her I was pretty sure she said something about him cumming quickly, she admits she was having so much fun teasing me that she might have said something along those lines. Anyway, she most certainly won that round, she got me good there!

“He’s not the only one I might have tricked you about,” she said. She went away with G for a couples of nights recently, I was definitely under the impression that she’d had a threesome with him and another mate of his on the Saturday. This time I figured it out much sooner. In reality, she had only said his mate came over, that she liked him and they’d had a lot of fun. Again, she happily let me assume that meant so much more and I, blissfully unaware and totally aroused, thought she’d fill me in on the sordid details in her own good time.

But, I did realise there was something else. She had definitely said they might catch up again, I asked her about that and she said yes, they are going to. She was thinking she might have even have been able to make it a bit of a secret, play that game where she left little little hints. Darn it, I wrecked that one. Anyway, he does know the situation including that she and G have sex and they did exchange numbers. She even showed me some flirty texts they have sent to each other, they have talked about going on a date and she does think there’s a decent chance of a connection and more happening sometime.

Then there’s her regular massage guy, the one she has been seeing for months. She told me they started having sex two visits ago, was that a trick too I wondered. She took my cheeks in her hands, smooshed my face and looked close into my eyes.

“No babe, I actually did tell you I have been having sex with him and I have. But I have known him for many months now, I guess I made my connection. Just so you can be very clear on this, I have had lots of orgasms with him, I have had his dick in my mouth and my pussy and he has cum inside me twice.”

I agreed that it was clear, she certainly left no doubts there!

The last bit of the conversation was about that “slutty” resolution. She is absolutely right, she asked if I really thought she wasn’t actually being that way. She has had sex with three guys, she has an idea she might go on a date with another and just had a total stranger’s hands all over her naked body. On top of that, she has dirty talked a lot, and has told me all sorts of things about her real adventures. She is completely right, it has been a very slutty start to the year, just not as slutty as I believed for a while.

Yeah, I am actually happy about these revelations, it would be fair to say I’m a little relieved. I thought it was all so unlike her but now I see it is far less so than I thought. She has stayed true to herself, well, for the “connection needed” bit at least!

Well played my love, you really got me there. Hook, line and sinker.

PS the conversations aren’t word for word of course, just my recollection on how they went.

Well I’ll be, somehow I never knew this, except for the QOS of course. I once half-jokingly asked my wife if she’d get a queen of spades or bbc tattoo (not that she’s actually earned one, not yet at least), she said no way. To the tattoo that is.

QOH and QOD have been well and truly earned though, I wonder what she’d think about them for a suggestion, a nice pair of red queens somewhere near her bikini line perhaps.